Becoming a Woman of Peace and Purpose

Hey besties! How are you?

There was a certain time in my life where somehow I didnt fully understand myself.

I found myself being emotionally attached to people who never truly aligned with me and somehow I felt lost. I held on to these online connections that gave me temporary comfort , but really left me feeling confused, uncertain and sometimes even empty. It's like im living in a blank hole.

"Why do i feel this way? and Why can't I just let it go?"

I knew i should hold on because of love but deep down I knew something wasn't right.

Choosing God Over Temporary Feelings

It wasn’t an easy journey, but God started gently calling me back to Him.

Through quiet moments, prayers, and even moments of breaking, I began to realize that not everything meant for me would feel easy—or even comfortable.

I started learning that:

Not every connection is meant to stay
Not every feeling should be followed
And not every person is part of God’s plan for my life

So I made a choice.

I chose God over temporary relationships.
I chose peace over emotional confusion.
I chose healing over holding on.

Learning Self-Worth and Softness

As I began to let go, I started to rediscover who I truly was.

Not who others wanted me to be.
Not who I became just to feel loved.

But the woman God created me to be.

I learned that:

My worth is not defined by someone’s attention
My softness is not weakness—it’s strength
And my value does not decrease based on how someone treats me

I began to embrace a softer, more intentional way of living—one rooted in grace, patience, and self-respect.